How To Spot The One & Create Lasting Love

Learn How To Turn Your Desires Into A Relationship That Lasts A Lifetime

How To Spot The One & Create Lasting Love
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How To Spot The One & Create Lasting Love

Learn How To Turn Your Desires Into A Relationship That Lasts A Lifetime

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47 VIDEO LESSONS
By expert instructor John Kim, LMFT
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Learn How To Turn Your Desires Into A Relationship That Lasts A Lifetime

$39.99 USD

What you get:

  • A comprehensive guide to what to look for in a potential partner
  • Detailed action plans for finding and growing true love
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instructor credentials Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Who Is This Class For?

This Class Is Perfect For You If:

  • You’re single and looking for a special someone.
  • You’re in a relationship and want to determine if he or she is who you’re meant to be with.
  • You’re ready to open your heart to real, lasting love.
  • You’re ready to find “the one".
  • You want step-by-step guidance to discover your ultimate relationship.

How To Spot The One & Create Lasting Love

By enrolling in this class, you’ll gain imperative knowledge on how to:

  • 1. What it takes to make a relationship not only work but thrive.
  • 2. Spotting healthy traits and warning signs in potential partners.
  • 3. Assessing and addressing issues in your relationship.

Class Outline

4 LESSONS

Introduction: What Do We Mean When We Talk About “The One”?

John Kim has helped thousands of people attract and develop lasting relationships through his unique method. In your first module, he’ll fill you in on who he is, what this class is all about, who it’s designed for, and how he can help you find true, lasting love.
LESSONS
  • 1. Meet John Kim
  • 2. Is This Class For You?
  • 3. So What's This Class All About?
  • 4. A Quick Note For Everyone Enrolled In John's First Class
23 LESSONS

How To Know When To Bail (Or Nurture What You’ve Got)

John calls out some common (and not so common) red flags and explains why the behavior or quality your partner demonstrates can weigh on your relationship. He’ll then lay out action steps to help you address and overcome those challenges with your partner, in order to nurture and grow your relationship.
LESSONS
  • 1. Introduction: Why Relationship Red Flags Are Real, How To Spot Them + What To Do
  • 2. Do You Feel Grabbed Instead Of Held?
  • 3. What To Do If You Feel Grabbed Instead Of Held
  • 4. Does Your Partner Often Regress From Confident To Codependent?
  • 5. How To Help Your Partner Tap Into Their Confidence & Revitalize Your Romance
  • 6. Is Your Partner Always Negative?
  • 7. How To Help Your Partner (And Your Relationship) Switch From Negative To Positive
  • 8. Is Your Partner Always Claiming To Be Right?
  • 9. How To Get Your Partner To See The Light, Even In Dark Times
  • 10. What If Your Partner Never Expresses How They Feel?
  • 11. Getting Your Partner To Open Up & Introducing More Meaning In Your Relationship
  • 12. Does Your Partner Never Use "I" Statements?
  • 13. Helping Your Partner Move From “You” to “I” To Reignite The Spark
  • 14. Is Your Partner Is Criticizing Your Character?
  • 15. How To End Toxic Character Critiques & Reassert Your Individuality
  • 16. Is Your Partner Never Willing To Evaluate Their Actions?
  • 17. A Four-Step Plan To Foster More Self-Awareness In Your Partner & Grow Your Love
  • 18. Does Your Partner Constantly Compare You To Their Ex?
  • 19. A Five-Step Plan To Solve The Problem Of The Ex & Refocus Your Relationship
  • 20. Is Your Partner Too Dependent?
  • 21. How To Dissolve The Dependency & Create A Healthy, Lasting Relationship
  • 22. What If Your Partner Doesn’t Support Your Journey?
  • 23. How To Get Support & Appreciation From Your Partner
3 LESSONS

Quick Tips From John

Before you go, John has a few quick tips he’d like to share in order to ensure that you’re on the most effective track to finding your true love.
LESSONS
  • 1. The One Trait To Look For To Know If Your Partner Is The One
  • 2. The Biggest Red Flag in a Relationship
  • 3. The Number One Tip For Healthy Communication With Your Partner
16 LESSONS

How To Spot The One: Qualities & Behaviors To Look For

There are so many characteristics and habits of a person that can tip you off as to whether or not he or she will make a great partner. John fills you in on traits and behaviors to look for to better assess if someone is worth your time.
LESSONS
  • 1. You Have Sexual Chemistry
  • 2. You Make Each Other Laugh
  • 3. You Share Values & Beliefs
  • 4. You Respect Each Other As Individuals
  • 5. You Trust Each Other
  • 6. You See Home In Your Partner’s Eyes
  • 7. Your Partner Seeks Meaning In Their Own Life
  • 8. Your Partner Communicates With Honesty & Transparency
  • 9. Your Partner Tries To Understand You Before Being Understood
  • 10. Your Partner Isn’t Afraid To Say No
  • 11. Your Partner Responds Instead Of Reacts
  • 12. Your Partner Metabolizes Anger In A Healthy Way
  • 13. Your Partner Puts Thought Into The Gifts He Or She Gives You
  • 14. Your Partner Laughs Unapologetically
  • 15. Your Partner Kisses Like He Or She Means It
  • 16. Your Partner Fights In A Healthy Way
1 LESSONS

Conclusion: Spotting The One In The Real World

John shares parting thoughts and advice to help you synthesize what you’ve learned in this class. He’ll also explain how to practically apply it in your life to spot the one and create more meaningful relationships.
LESSONS
  • 1. The Mindset You Need To Spot The One & Create Lasting Love
4 LESSONS

Introduction: What Do We Mean When We Talk About “The One”?

John Kim has helped thousands of people attract and develop lasting relationships through his unique method. In your first module, he’ll fill you in on who he is, what this class is all about, who it’s designed for, and how he can help you find true, lasting love.
LESSONS
  • 1. Meet John Kim
  • 2. Is This Class For You?
  • 3. So What's This Class All About?
  • 4. A Quick Note For Everyone Enrolled In John's First Class
16 LESSONS

How To Spot The One: Qualities & Behaviors To Look For

There are so many characteristics and habits of a person that can tip you off as to whether or not he or she will make a great partner. John fills you in on traits and behaviors to look for to better assess if someone is worth your time.
LESSONS
  • 1. You Have Sexual Chemistry
  • 2. You Make Each Other Laugh
  • 3. You Share Values & Beliefs
  • 4. You Respect Each Other As Individuals
  • 5. You Trust Each Other
  • 6. You See Home In Your Partner’s Eyes
  • 7. Your Partner Seeks Meaning In Their Own Life
  • 8. Your Partner Communicates With Honesty & Transparency
  • 9. Your Partner Tries To Understand You Before Being Understood
  • 10. Your Partner Isn’t Afraid To Say No
  • 11. Your Partner Responds Instead Of Reacts
  • 12. Your Partner Metabolizes Anger In A Healthy Way
  • 13. Your Partner Puts Thought Into The Gifts He Or She Gives You
  • 14. Your Partner Laughs Unapologetically
  • 15. Your Partner Kisses Like He Or She Means It
  • 16. Your Partner Fights In A Healthy Way
23 LESSONS

How To Know When To Bail (Or Nurture What You’ve Got)

John calls out some common (and not so common) red flags and explains why the behavior or quality your partner demonstrates can weigh on your relationship. He’ll then lay out action steps to help you address and overcome those challenges with your partner, in order to nurture and grow your relationship.
LESSONS
  • 1. Introduction: Why Relationship Red Flags Are Real, How To Spot Them + What To Do
  • 2. Do You Feel Grabbed Instead Of Held?
  • 3. What To Do If You Feel Grabbed Instead Of Held
  • 4. Does Your Partner Often Regress From Confident To Codependent?
  • 5. How To Help Your Partner Tap Into Their Confidence & Revitalize Your Romance
  • 6. Is Your Partner Always Negative?
  • 7. How To Help Your Partner (And Your Relationship) Switch From Negative To Positive
  • 8. Is Your Partner Always Claiming To Be Right?
  • 9. How To Get Your Partner To See The Light, Even In Dark Times
  • 10. What If Your Partner Never Expresses How They Feel?
  • 11. Getting Your Partner To Open Up & Introducing More Meaning In Your Relationship
  • 12. Does Your Partner Never Use "I" Statements?
  • 13. Helping Your Partner Move From “You” to “I” To Reignite The Spark
  • 14. Is Your Partner Is Criticizing Your Character?
  • 15. How To End Toxic Character Critiques & Reassert Your Individuality
  • 16. Is Your Partner Never Willing To Evaluate Their Actions?
  • 17. A Four-Step Plan To Foster More Self-Awareness In Your Partner & Grow Your Love
  • 18. Does Your Partner Constantly Compare You To Their Ex?
  • 19. A Five-Step Plan To Solve The Problem Of The Ex & Refocus Your Relationship
  • 20. Is Your Partner Too Dependent?
  • 21. How To Dissolve The Dependency & Create A Healthy, Lasting Relationship
  • 22. What If Your Partner Doesn’t Support Your Journey?
  • 23. How To Get Support & Appreciation From Your Partner
1 LESSONS

Conclusion: Spotting The One In The Real World

John shares parting thoughts and advice to help you synthesize what you’ve learned in this class. He’ll also explain how to practically apply it in your life to spot the one and create more meaningful relationships.
LESSONS
  • 1. The Mindset You Need To Spot The One & Create Lasting Love
3 LESSONS

Quick Tips From John

Before you go, John has a few quick tips he’d like to share in order to ensure that you’re on the most effective track to finding your true love.
LESSONS
  • 1. The One Trait To Look For To Know If Your Partner Is The One
  • 2. The Biggest Red Flag in a Relationship
  • 3. The Number One Tip For Healthy Communication With Your Partner

Meet The Instructor

John Kim, LMFT
John Kim, LMFT

John Kim, aka The Angry Therapist, is a LMFT whose practice redefines “therapy” in the traditional sense. He uses the internet as a therapeutic tool with an online community as the main space for growth and healing. John and his team provide support to make mental health a daily practice, integrated in everyday life.

Testimonials

"John Kim is a visionary, a leader, an athlete, a scholar, a writer, a friend, and a guy that I want to have on my team while trying to change the world."
— Noelle Cordeaux
"John Kim is a modern day farmer. He tills the soil of hearts through his therapeutic approach so you can welcome a harvest of riches: transparency, authenticity, love, and truth."
— Sam Louie

What’s Included

Secure your spot in How To Spot The One & Create Lasting Love for these enrollment benefits:

  • 5 modules and 47 video lessons, filled with all the information you need
  • A comprehensive guide to what to look for in a potential partner
  • Detailed action plans for finding and growing true love
  • Lifetime access to stream from your computer, phone or tablet

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Learn How To Turn Your Desires Into A Relationship That Lasts A Lifetime

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  • A comprehensive guide to what to look for in a potential partner
  • Detailed action plans for finding and growing true love
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Learn How To Turn Your Desires Into A Relationship That Lasts A Lifetime
Pay with Affirm
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$39.99
ADD TO CART
Unlock all mbg classes for $549
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